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Monday, October 22, 2007

Conquest

Conquest=the act or the state of conquering or the state of being conquered

So....as a quick recap of the week and to interweave my title with my week (get ready to be impressed!).....

1) Comps have officially been conquered (hopefully). After a couple of restless nights, I had my traditional Einstein's run and then sat for my comprehensive exams. One of the questions (there are only 4--essay style) caught me off guard, but overall, I'm pretty confident that I passed. The Lord completely gave me a peace about this test and although I don't get results for a couple of weeks, I'm feeling pretty confident.

2) Jessica Bradberry became Mrs. Evan Conquest. Hence, the title of the blog and my nerdy way of being creative. I stole these pics off of Brittany's facebook. I forgot the digital camera, so I totally used the old kodak style all weekend and Jessica's was impressed by its zoom (me just getting really really close up). It was a great wedding. I love going to weddings, but there's really something different about getting to experience one of your best friends best days of their life, by her sideI hope that she didn't get sick of me, but I was really with her (b/c I didn't have a car!) from about 6 pm on Thursday night through the entire wedding. It was great to hear her heart and just watch her giddiness as the days unfolded. Her bridesmaids were an awesome group of women, and there was just some great fellowship over the weekend that my heart really needed. I really think I will keep in touch with them (and now they all have this blog address, so please comment and I'll give you an official shout out!). I was nervous about the speech.....but Kristen gave me much confidence when she said "Julie, you're a speech pathologist! You are an expert". Haha. I actually thought they had forgot the speech, so by the time it came up, I didn't really have time to get nervous. Here are some quick pics of the speech:







Caleb was a rehearsal dinner saver and showed his servant's heart and went to Best Buy to buy a cord at the last minute so that the slideshow would play. The reception was a blast, and although the bm's (hahahahaha!; like that Caleb?!) and I attempted on multiple occassions to get the dance party started, nobody really started dancing until Jess and Ev came out and tore it up! We had a great weekend, and it made my day yesterday when Jess and Ev called in all their newlywed giddiness! I will be thinking of them all week as they are honeymooning and I'm back to the real world :(.

3) Caleb's birthday is on Friday. Anybody who has known us for a while know that I'm always on a conquest (yes!) to find the perfect gift. The one that won't be returned. The one that he will actually use. The one that he will take out of the box and rip the tags off because he is so excited and surpised. After about 8 years of this, I feel like my passionate conquest for the perfect gift has ended. He told me he wants some specific rain jacket for ultimate, so he'll find the link, and I'll go and put in the credit card info (that we share) and it will be mailed. He will open it in the amazon.com cardboard box and all. Although this is the most boring thing in the world for me, I have to be okay and even happy that this is exactly what he wants. I am all about big, elaborate surprises wrapped in fancy paper and the anticipation of what it is. He just wants to pick out exactly what he wants, that he wouldn't usually spend his own money on. He doesn't care about the anticipation, the wrapping, or even the fact that I spent hours getting creative and have many thoughtful reasons of why I picked what I did. So, this is just a big difference between us and it's good. This is the way the Lord created it. I think he does get stressed out about my bday because I guess I expect more of a conquest :).

Haha....I'm such a dork. Okay, I'm going to sign off now. I will do a birthday post, hopefully with pictures and all, so please anticipate!

Saturday, October 13, 2007

Laying it all down...

Well, my blogger friends, it has been a while since my last post. I will try to do a quick update :).

Mom came in last weekend for her birthday. We had a great time--good food, good conversation, good rest, and a good memory-making experience. We ended up going to the TX/OU game last minute and were both pretty hoarse on Sunday. It was a great game, much better than anticipated. She went to church with me on Sunday and really enjoyed it--she's even mentioned it a few times since then :).

Caleb did not join in the festivities, as he was in Jacksonville, Florida all weekend for ultimate regionals. Although their team didn't advance to nationals, he did not get hurt, and actually was the unofficial "MVP". He got the first "shout out" (big deal in ultimate lingo!) after the tournament and even got a few emails later acclaiming his great "D" on the field. So, he came back very happy both from his performance and also for a few restful weekends before winter league begins!

This week the Lord completely broke me on Tuesday night. I was so overwhelmed by trying to do everything on my own strength. I couldn't sleep. My mind was consumed by running "to do" lists. I woke up with stomach aches from the anxiety of these to do lists....I was trying to do life on my own strength. It wasn't working. I was reminded of the verse in Colossians 3 that says "He is before all things and in Him all things hold together". Well, I obviously wasn't putting the Lord over everything, and therefore, everything was a mess! So...after being broken before him I layed down all my burdens, and I am free! The sermon series this past month has been about seeking the Lord and His strength....and I just listened. When I finally sought the Lord's strength, He has renewed me.

I finished my independent study and my part of a project. Caleb and I have had a great, relaxing weekend so far and my anxiety has been lifted regarding comps and job stuff. The week ahead is pretty crazy with comps on Friday and then Jessica's wedding weekend full of festivities, but I'm really excited.

Caleb and I had date night tonight. Coal Vines :). I did confirm that I don't care for ricotta cheese....it's one of those textures I definitely have a sensory aversion to. But, we had good conversation and good people watching. He also admitted that he secretly likes the Christmas letter after I told him I was contemplating not doing one this year. So....get excited!

I'm also debating....it costs $90 to rent a cap/gown to walk for graduation. Is it really worth it? I'm having my doubts....